2.
Why Having a Positive Mental Attitude
Can Hurt You
We
hear so often about the tremendous
impact that having a positive mental
attitude can have on your real estate
career. I'm a firm believer in this
concept also. Being able to constantly
put the short-term disappointments of
this business behind you immediately,
and move forward in a state of knowing
that you're about to uncover a huge
opportunity for yourself, can do wonders
for both your short and long-term
success in this business.
But
here's the problem I see with so many
agents. They have a positive mental
attitude, but it's completely wrapped
around a game plan of day-to-day
activities that's doomed for failure.
If
you're working a particular game plan
for success in this business, whether
you've identified what the game plan is
or whether you're completely doing it on
your own unconsciously, if you haven't
seen an improvement in your results for
90 days or more, it may be time to
revise the game plan. With this in mind,
typically I see agents who are
struggling or under-performing becoming
so attached to the routine they're
constantly working day-to-day in their
real estate careers. They become
convinced that the only problem is that
they haven't been working this routine
long enough. Or they become convinced
that they just need a little more luck.
But both of these assumptions are
solidly doomed for disaster.
Top-producing
agents have become so successful because
they've constantly been willing to try
new approaches throughout their real
estate careers. Agents who struggle, on
the other hand, usually fall into a
routine they've learned within their
first 2-3 years in the business, and
they then spend years repeating that
same day-to-day routine over and over
again. They feel that they're working
just as hard as the top earners in the
office, but they don't recognize that
the top earners are working a different
game plan than they are. This lack of
recognition can then be reinforced when
these agents see other agents working in
the office. When agents are in the
office along with other agents, everyone
looks busy. And everyone can look like
they're busy doing similar activities,
too. Based upon this observation, it can
then be easy for a struggling agent to
conclude that they're doing the exact
same things that the top-producing
agents are doing. But this assumption
could not be further from the truth.
With
this in mind, when it's time for you to
take your real estate business to the
next level, recognize that it's very
difficult for you to do it completely on
your own. Of all the game plans you
could be working in your real estate
business, your mind has settled-in on
the one you're working right now, with
all things considered, as the one that's
best for you. When you add to this how
easily you may find yourself going back
to your old habits whenever you try to
change your day-to-day routine to a more
successful one, you may soon find
yourself back in your old routine very,
very quickly. Perhaps you've already
experienced this.
If
you're looking to improve your results
in your real estate business, it may be
time to get input from someone who knows
the best way to get you to where you
want to be. Some of the people you may
want to talk to include your manager, a
top-producing real estate agent, or a
real estate coach.
While
a positive mental attitude is great to
have as a real estate agent, when you
combine it with working a day-to-day
routine in your real estate business
that's doomed for failure, you'll
continually experience a lot of
frustration as a real estate agent. And
sometimes it's easy to erroneously
conclude in these situations that what
you need to do is just keep a positive
mental attitude, and keep working the
same old routine.
When
you instead combine the positive mental
attitude with continually reinventing
yourself as a real estate agent,
updating your day-to-day routine to a
more effective one, and seeking out
experts who will make certain you're
continually on the right track, you'll
meet with the success you've always
wanted to achieve in this business very,
very quickly.
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