2)
Revisiting a Great Commercial Real
Estate Book When
I first began working in commercial real
estate back in 1979, I was told to read
the book "Winning Through
Intimidation" by Robert Ringer.
This book was a top seller in the 1970s,
and it's been one of the best selling
business books of all time. What
made this book even more relevant was
the fact that Robert Ringer wrote it
based upon his own experience as a
commercial real estate agent, selling
expensive investment properties all
across the country. I
remember when I first heard the title of
the book it made me cringe. I had this
vision of someone forcing people to do
things against their will to get what he
wanted from them. But this is far, far
from what this book is really about, and
its value to commercial real estate
salespeople is beyond measure. I
remember when first reading the book,
Ringer talked about how there are only
three types of people in the business
world, and all of them are out to get
your money. I also remember thinking
that he was being a bit excessive with
this opinion, too. But I can honestly
say, after practicing as a commercial
agent for 20 years, that Ringer was
right on with this assessment. I have to
struggle to think of any principals I
knew in my commercial real estate career
who didn't fit this description. Some of
them may have been friendly,
well-intentioned people, but in the end,
if we were discussing whether my
commission should go into my pocket or
help reduce their own expenses instead,
they almost always wanted what was best
for themselves. And
I remember watching a talk show back
then when the book was really popular,
too. There was a priest on the show, and
he mentioned that "Winning Through
Intimidation" was the wrong
approach for anyone to be utilizing with
others in this day and age. And I could
tell when the priest was discussing
this, that he had simply judged the book
by its cover without reading it. Ringer's
form of intimidation throughout the book
was absolutely brilliant. He talked
about creating an image of yourself as
an agent that was so incredible in the
eyes of your clients and prospects, that
they would feel compelled to work with
you. One of the best examples of this
was when he'd have his first appointment
with a prospective new seller, sometimes
even flying across the country for the
appointment. Now imagine the impression
he created in the seller's mind when he
walked into the meeting with three of
his personal secretaries accompanying
him! What kind of commercial agent would
fly across the country with three
secretaries along with him to attend the
first meeting? Clearly someone who was
above and beyond being the average
agent. And
he talked about the difference between
closing a transaction and getting paid
on it, which can be two very distinct
and different occurrences in our
industry. Since many of the states he
was closing transactions in were
non-escrow states, he developed the
practice of bringing his own attorney to
these closings to ensure against any
last-minute foul play between the
principals and their attorneys to cut
him out of his commission. He
recognized, as I later recognized
throughout my own career in commercial
real estate, that attorneys seem to have
an unwritten law of complete mutual
respect amongst themselves. Many of them
may have minimal respect for you as a
commercial real estate agent, but when
the agent brings his own attorney along
with him to the closing, they treat that
attorney with the respect the agent
needs to get paid. If
you've never read "Winning Through
Intimidation" before, and you're a
commercial agent, I can't recommend the
book highly enough to you. And if it's
been a long time since you've read it,
reading it again will probably have a
deeper impact on you with your greater
amount of experience in our industry. I
just finished re-reading the book 25
years after I read it for the first
time, and I enjoyed it even more this
time! The
book "Winning Through
Intimidation" is no longer in
print, but previously owned copies of it
can be found on Amazon.com by clicking
here. In
addition, Ringer has written a more
recent book titled, "To Be or Not
to Be Intimidated? That is the
Question." And reviewers of this
book say it's an updated version of
"Winning Through Intimidation"
with some additional information
included also. If you're interested in
information on this particular book, it
can be found on Amazon.com by clicking
here. If
you'd like to read an article recently
written by Robert Ringer titled
"Intimidated? Ways to Ensure Your
Commission," you can click
here. Much of this article is taken
directly from his "Winning Through
Intimidation" book, and if you're a
commercial agent I bet you can identify
with it! Commercial
real estate sales and leasing can be a
very difficult business to be in. There
are great opportunities to make a lot of
money in our industry, but there are a
lot of people along the way who try to
keep us from making that money, too.
"Winning Through Intimidation"
is like a breath of fresh air to read
when you're a commercial agent. You can
easily find yourself saying,
"Finally, here's someone who
understands exactly what I go through
every day in this business!" And
let's face it, very few people
understand what we go through in our
day-to-day lives as commercial agents. And
in closing, thank you Robert Ringer for
writing this book. From one
"tortoise" to another, it's
been a great help to me throughout my
real estate career, and throughout my
life also.
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