1. It's
Time to Master Your Mental and Emotional
States Life
as a full-time real estate agent can
definitely be stressful. So in order to
maximize your success you need to learn
how to master your mental and emotional
mood swings throughout your career. One
day you're on top of the world with a
great number of transactions that all
look great. Then, maybe one week later,
a good number of these transactions have
fallen apart and you feel like a
heavyweight boxer has just punched you
right in the stomach. It's times like
these that definitely test your
character as a real estate agent.
When
you've been in this business for many
years there is one certainty that you
learn---some deals are going to close,
and some are not. Keeping this in mind,
the more you get attached to your deals
closing along the way, the more you can
get mentally and emotionally taken to
the cleaners when they don't. At best
all you can really do is everything you
can to keep your deals alive while
you're working on them.
When
you start counting on the money landing
in your bank account from all the deals
you're currently working on, you can
also count on experiencing major
disappointments in your real estate
career. But if you continually do your
footwork along the way and locate great
prospects for you to work with each and
every year, you're going to make great
money in this business each and every
year also.
To
illustrate my point, Dennis, a coaching
client of mine and a veteran real estate
agent, just lost an $18,000,000.00
transaction. And everything was moving
so fast towards consummating this
transaction over the two-week period
that he was negotiating on it, too. The
sellers said that they desperately
needed the money as the recession had
been constantly hammering away at their
business. But just before signing the
final purchase agreement, the sellers
changed their minds and took their
property off the market despite Dennis'
clients verbally agreeing to pay them
the exact price they wanted for the
property. So for two weeks the sellers
were moving full speed ahead to sell
their property to Dennis' clients, then
they suddenly decided on "Plan
B" to raise the cash they needed
instead. In this situation, Dennis had
done everything right with the exception
of fully and continually imagining all
the wonderful things he was going to
bring into his life with the $450,000.00
in commission he was counting on earning
from the deal. And right now Dennis is
doing everything he can to put this
experience behind him and focus on all
the great opportunities that are
awaiting him right now in his
marketplace.
When
things like this happen to you in your
real estate business you have to learn
how to "get right back on the
horse" and start riding again. If
you can't put experiences like these
behind you as quickly as possible in
your real estate career, you are
guaranteed to cost yourself countless
weeks, months, and years of great
productivity in your business. And there
are a lot of agents out there who
continually allow this to happen to them
throughout their real estate careers,
too.
But
interestingly, nobody continually has
more deals blowing-up in their faces
than the top-earning real estate agents
in our industry. And the difference
between them and everyone else is they
don't let it suck the life out of their
productivity like so many other agents
do. They recognize that this is all part
of being in this business---a business
that enables them to earn a great amount
of income every single year.
So
the next time one or more of your deals
falls apart remember that you have two
choices. You can choose to allow this to
sap your energy and kill your
productivity in the weeks and months
ahead. Or you can recognize that this is
just a normal part of the business
you've chosen, get focused and back on
track again, and be absolutely certain
that you're about to uncover some great
new opportunities to capitalize on in
your real estate business.
One
of these choices will continually make
you much more money than the other one.
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