3.
The Winning Salesperson and the Losing One Within
the past week I had two dramatically
different experiences with salespeople
that I thought would be perfect examples
to tell you about. The
first salesperson I dealt with was Frank,
who is an insurance salesman. I was
talking with Frank about different options
for insurance, and while he is a friendly
person, he ended up completely repelling
me from wanting to do business with him.
His answers to my questions were very
lengthy, and I'd find myself continually
waiting for him to finish talking before I
could ask him my next question. This
felt very frustrating to me because he was
continually embellishing his answers with
far greater detail than I needed to hear
long after he had already answered my
question. And his answers would often go
into areas that I had no interest in
hearing about. In addition, sometimes
he would start answering my questions
before I had finished asking them, thereby
beginning one of his long and embellished
answers once again, but unfortunately it
was sometimes an answer to a different
question than the one I was going to ask
him. On
top of this, he kept trying to get me
interested in an insurance plan that I
told him I wasn't interested in. I told
him what I was looking for, and he gave me
my options in that arena, but he kept
bringing up this other insurance plan that
I had told him was not an option. He
was definitely a nice guy, but he was very tuned out
to identifying my needs and taking care of
them. And he was much more interested in
doing the talking for long periods of time
than he was in listening to me. I
really, really felt frustrated in working
with him. And while his company actually
did have a plan that would have worked for
me, I found myself looking for another
company to work with because Frank was so
completely tuned out to my needs, and I
didn't want to establish an ongoing
relationship with him. So I found another
expert at a different company who was very
knowledgeable, attentive, and listened to
exactly what I wanted. And in my second
phone call with him, he ended up closing
the deal. Now
compare that experience to the one I had
with Ronny, a man from India whose passion
is spreading the word about natural
healing therapies throughout the world. My
wife, our daughter, and I were walking through
the local shopping mall and Ronny managed
to get our attention. He was standing at
his kiosk in the middle of the mall
showcasing his healthcare products. Now
mind you, neither my wife or I were
looking for what Ronny was selling when we
were shopping. And we didn't even know
that the products he was offering existed.
But even if we did know that they existed, we
wouldn't have actively been looking to buy them. But
Ronny began talking with us and his
passion and love for his products came
through. I began talking with him about
some things I knew about the culture of
his homeland in
India, and he became interested that I
knew these things. I was also
curious about his business and how much he
was paying monthly for what appeared to be
a 12' X 6' kiosk on the floor in the
middle of the mall, and was surprised to
find out that these kiosks were renting
for $3,000.00! (How's that for expensive
rent per square foot?) He
was so passionate about his business and
he began giving us demonstrations of what
his products could do for us. He had one
product that massaged the head that really felt
incredible, and another one for massaging
the rest of the body. He mentioned that
these products contained magnets in them
which were supposed to aid in relaxing the
body, too. Another
product he offered was a specially contoured pack
made from fabric that contained herbs
inside of it. This pack was for heating in
a microwave oven then placing on the part
of the body that needed relaxing, and it
was reusable, too. We could even smell all the herbs that were
carefully sewn inside of the fabric. Like
I said, even if we had known about these
products I don't think they would have
been at the top of our shopping list, but
Ronny's passion and love for what he did,
and his impressive demonstrations of the
products themselves won us over. (The fact
that he offered to negotiate the prices helped, too!) In
any event we felt compelled to buy from
him, and it was simply amazing to watch
this entire process evolve. It reminded me
of the metaphor often utilized to describe
a great salesperson as being someone who
could even "sell ice to an
Eskimo." We weren't originally
looking to buy any products like these,
but the process of interacting with Ronny
made us feel like we wanted to. And
as I heard well known author and speaker
Dr. Wayne Dyer say on one occasion,
"When you truly love what you do for
a living people aren't buying the product
or service you're selling them. They're
buying the passion, love, and enthusiasm
you exude to them." And
in the case of our experience with Ronny,
this is definitely what happened. So
what does all of this mean to you in your
real estate business? Well,
do these two different experiences give
you some ideas on how you can improve your
own presentation skills with people? Are
you listening to your clients' needs? Are
you focused on fulfilling their needs? Is
it more important for you to listen to
them than it is for you to be talking to
them? Are
you exuding a passion and love for your
real estate business that has your clients
and prospects feel compelled to work with
you? If not, what do you need to do to
change this? And
as a final note to this story, the
products we purchased from Ronny have been
a big hit. The massage products are
incredible, and 10 minutes after taking
the special herb pack out of the microwave
and putting it on my neck and shoulders,
all the tension I had there completely
disappeared! I could even rotate my neck
much farther from side to side, too. Now
I have a much better understanding of why
Ronny is so passionate about his products.
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